Recorded on: 7/15/2024
Therapist: Welcome back. How have you been feeling since our last session?
Client: A bit up and down, to be honest. I tried that mindfulness exercise we talked about, and it helped sometimes, but other times I just felt overwhelmed.
Therapist: It's completely normal for it to be a mixed experience, especially when you're starting out. Can you tell me more about when you felt overwhelmed?
Client: It was mostly when I had a lot of work deadlines piling up. I felt like I couldn't switch off, and the anxiety just built.
Therapist: I see. So, the pressure from work seems to be a significant trigger. We discussed setting boundaries around work. How did that go?
Client: I managed to stick to not checking emails after 7 PM on a couple of days, which was good. But then a big project came up, and it all went out the window. I feel like I failed at that.
Therapist: It sounds like you made some progress, even if it wasn't consistent. It's not about failure, but about learning what works and what's challenging. Perhaps we can explore strategies for managing work stress when big projects arise. What are your thoughts on that?
Client: Yeah, that would be helpful. I want to get better at handling this stress without it taking over my whole life. That's one of my main goals for therapy.
Therapist: Okay, that's a clear goal. "Developing healthier coping mechanisms for work-related stress." We can definitely focus on that. You also mentioned feeling a sense of accomplishment when you did manage to set boundaries. Can you recall how that felt?
Client: It felt... lighter. Like I had a bit more control. It was a good feeling.
Therapist: That's a positive to hold onto. Those moments of control, however small, are important. Let's build on that.
Client: I also wanted to talk about my relationship with my partner. We've been arguing more lately.
Therapist: Okay, thank you for bringing that up. Tell me more about these arguments.
Client: It's usually about small things, but they escalate quickly. I feel like they're not listening to me, and I get frustrated.
Therapist: So, feeling unheard is a key part of that frustration. When you say "escalate quickly," what does that look like?
Client: We both start raising our voices, and then one of us usually walks away angry. It's not productive.
Therapist: It sounds like improving communication and conflict resolution in your relationship is another area you'd like to work on. Would that be accurate?
Client: Yes, definitely. I want us to be able to talk through things without it turning into a fight.
Therapist: Alright. So we have two important areas emerging: managing work stress and improving relationship communication. How do these feel as focal points for our upcoming sessions?
Client: That sounds good. They're both weighing on me a lot.
Therapist: Excellent. We can explore specific techniques and strategies for both. For today, perhaps we can start by looking at one recent argument with your partner in more detail. Would you be open to that?
Client: Yes, I think that would be useful.
Therapist: Great. Let's start there.
(Session continues...)
Client: I feel a bit better just talking about these goals.
Therapist: That's good to hear. Articulating them is the first step.